But Not Today

Well this is a tricky time, yes? Let’s count a few ways…

There are the holidays, which often come with a multitude of festive moments…and a multitude of non-festive moments. Think traffic, crowds, and, potentially, a few forced smiles around that carefully-set dinner table.

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There’s also…and let me say first that I am in nooooooo way entering into specific political discussions here…an uncertainty that comes with the transition of a new national leader microsoft excel windows 7 kostenlos downloaden. Especially when that leader is markedly different from the one that came before.

And, of course, there are our own tricky little wickets going on. Think money issues, work challenges, health concerns, and relationships that might find themselves going a bit awry.

That’s life, after all. And we’re in the thick of it nero express herunterladen.

During these tricky times it’s easy to…well, to fret. Some of us, perhaps, might take it to the next level with a bit of freak-out.

It’s natural, of course, and yet it’s wildly unpleasant. And it does no good.

Fretting, let’s face it, stinks.

But.

I myself just recently discovered a little nugget of help in these tricky, fret-filled situations herunterladen. It came while listening to an interview with the boss.

And by the boss I mean The Boss.

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Yep, that one.

The interviewer, David Remnick, asked Mr. Bruce Springsteen if he thought there would ever be a time when he wouldn’t be able to run around the stage…when age would render him unable to jump on pianos and crowd surf kostenloser download google maps.

Bruce, in his gracious, awesome Bruce way, quoted a sentence from his book that touches on how to deal with those pesky what ifs.

Bruce says he knows “the day may come when…” (There are all kinds of ways to fill in this blank…so feel free to insert your own recent angst here) herunterladen.

But there’s a second part of the sentence. And that part is…

“…but not today.”

(Actually it was “but not tonight”, but sometimes us fretters tend to fret in the daylight hours so I’ve adjusted the Boss’ language. Heaven help me.)

Think about this. Really.

There are all kinds of things we fret about…all kinds of ways we can fill in the blank. And, all kinds of ways many of us do wo kann man navi karten herunterladen. Every day. Many, many times.

But, chances are really, really good that those things won’t happen today. They certainly won’t all happen today. Probably, none of them will.

Now. Does the “but not today” mantra give us permission to not plan? To not strategize or not act in ways that will make life happen in healthy, happy ways for us android 9.0 downloaden?

Of course not! Planning is important. Acting is important.

But the fretting that comes with it? The wringing of our hands…the spinning of our thoughts…the tensing of our shoulders? The horrible and absolute certainty that a crisis is imminent?

That stuff can be alleviated if we just take a breath and remember that all of the things we are so sure will bring us and our families and the greater world down…won’t happen today herunterladen.

Which leaves us the energy and focus to get down to business.

And what if one of those fret-filled things does happen?

We’ll be ready for it. Or maybe not. But either way, since we’re acting, the fretting will have to take a back seat.

Perhaps it’s rock blasphemy to say that “but not today” is one of the Boss’ greatest lyrics goat simulator.

But I don’t think us fretters can deny it’s got a pretty beautiful ring to it.

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Now go do good…and do it well.

PS: Want to hear David Remnick’s awesome interview with The Boss? Check it out here: Springsteen interview

PPS: Thanks to Laura Blankenship for the Christmas Toast photo, and to Takahiro Kyono for the terrific shots of The Boss himself herunterladen.

7 thoughts on “But Not Today

  1. Hannah says:

    Oh Deirdre how incredibly timely this piece is! You have just gifted me my new mantra…a million thanks for your wisdom and willingness to share.

    1. Hannah, you made my day! And don’t thank me for the gift…it was Bruce all the way. 🙂

  2. Patty says:

    thank you Deirdre for reminding of this important fact. one day at a time is all we have so why not enjoy it.

    1. One day at a time, indeed! How do we forget something so simple…so often? Thanks for giving this a read…and reminding us of another great mantra!

  3. Diane says:

    This message is so appropriate right now, thank you for your wisdom and positive perspective. I need to practice the art of “but not today”……and I need to do it TODAY! I hope your day is awesome!

    1. Thanks Diane! And we all do…it’s an ongoing practice for sure!

  4. Christine says:

    I finally got a chance to read this and what better time to remind us all to remain present, to live for the moment and try our best not to worry what’s in store for us but to live it up now! The Boss knows what he;s talking about! And yet still to plan for what we might need in the future. #DierdresNuggets #ActNotFret #ButNotToday

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