The last few weeks found me roaming around China. I’d like to say I did it with a sturdy map and an ever sturdier pair of exploring legs, but that would be a big, fat lie. Instead, hubby and I signed up for a tour…one that found us on a bus, at meals and in hotels with 40 other people.
Now, we all know that vacationing with others – even those we know – can be pretty…tricky power bi herunterladen.
So what happens when you spend 14 days in close quarters with 40 strangers? You learn some lessons – about life, about relationships and – of course – about yourself. And if you pay enough attention, they translate directly to the way we live, work and play.
Here are just a few little nuggets:
#1: The Lesson Learned from Steve
Every group, circle and family has a Steve dvd player für pc kostenlosen.
You know him. Nice guy (or gal, of course), who just wants to be liked, has the best of intentions, and never…shuts…up.
He’s the one who turns every comment from others into a story about himself…the one who loves to answer questions posed to other people…the one who really, really believes he knows it all. And can’t wait to show everyone.
Our Steve made his presence known the second he arrived. As time passed, whenever he was at a different table or away from the bus there was a knowing, collective sigh of relief that things would be a bit calmer globus app herunterladen. At least for the moment.
The lesson? Be wary of being a Steve, especially if you – like me – are an extrovert. We need to let others talk, ask for their opinions, and bite our tongues…no matter how fascinating we believe ourselves to be. Because, the truth is, we’re not.
#2: The Lesson Learned from Paula and Frank
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Paula and Frank were just so…nice. (gotta love you Midwesterners!) Since our assigned bus seats were near theirs, we couldn’t help but hear their conversations as they floated over the starched seats.
Unlike many others, this couple of more than 40 years together was always positive…smiling through rainstorms, laughing at every bad joke from the tour guide, walking hand-in-hand from destination to destination boot simulator kostenlos downloaden. They were also super smart and clever.
I assumed they were one of those fortunate couples who always had things go their way…who had perfect careers and perfect children and got to travel to perfectly wonderful far-away places. Perfectly.
Some couples, I reasoned, were just plain lucky in life.
But then I learned that Paula was battling a painful blood disorder kartenspiele herz kostenlos download. And Frank recently had surgery that left him uncomfortable during much of the trip.
They shared this information naturally, over time – no whining involved. Instead, they chose to recognize the good in their lives, and to celebrate it.
The lesson? You never know what other people are dealing with, so don’t make assumptions roboto schrift herunterladen. We’ve all got crappy stuff going on, and believing we’ve got it worse than others only hurts our own experiences and connections. Attitude is a choice, and some people are just better at choosing theirs than others.
#3: The Lesson Learned from…Everyone in China
Perhaps my greatest lesson of all was the one that came simply from watching the people of China visual basic 6.0 kostenlos.
Sure, in many ways China is a whole lot different than life here in the U.S. But in the end the bigger lesson wasn’t about how different we are as countries, but how alike we are as people.
It turns out that living on the other side of the world, speaking a distinctly different language and coming from a completely different history doesn’t change the fact that, in the end, we are all people fonts for free windows 10.
Without understanding a word they were saying, it was actually easy to observe what was happening as families laughed together, babies cried, and couples fought. Just like what we all do each day.
As I came across these so-called foreigners, I actually found that smiling warmly at them and making a little effort to show interest/appreciation led to striking connections…something we all need to some extent netflix staffelen.
Heck, a guy at the top of the Great Wall even handed over his special baseball cap, just because I smiled, pointed and said “ I like”.
The lesson? If relating to people from such a different culture can be done fairly easily, there’s no telling how much we can connect personally and professionally with those we come across everyday…with just a warm nod and a little bit of effort.
Learn from Steve, Paula, Frank and a country full of people who are just like us.
Consider how their lessons can help us all find greater connections, success and happiness.
Think of the lessons you’ve learned along the way from others.
Oh, and if you can…give the Great Wall a try. It’s totally worth it. Just ask our favorite traveling companions of all time.
Now, go do good…and do it well.