The Truth About Your Factory Settings

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I’m writing this trip in the midst of a visit to the lovely country of Germany.

The whole family is really into it.

This being said, and despite LOTS of planning, not everything has gone as…planned youtube liederen internetseite.

My finest example? Our reservation at a hotel located smack dab in the middle of all the action in Munich. Which didn’t actually have a room for us.

Which then led the super-sheepish woman at the front desk to break the news that we’d need to go to one of their other locations…far away from the action moorhuhn game jewel of eclipse full version download for free. (And anything.)

If you’ve known me for a long time, you might think you know what came next. A slow, low, angry voice expressing my disappointment as I demanded free parking and a discount.

A serious, intense stare to go with it.

I understand spotify herunterladen ausrufezeichen. I’ve been known to have these kinds of reactions in the past.

But this time things were different. While I did express my disappointment, there was no intensity. No anger. Just the facts expressed directly and calmly.

What the heck happened?

Some time ago I decided I wanted more serenity in my life autocad deutsch kostenlos herunterladen. And so I worked hard (and meditated hard) to get it.

To be honest, I hadn’t even realized how far I’d come until the woman at the front desk said to me: “I’ll do everything I can to help you because you’ve just been so nice.”

And that’s when it hit me. I’d officially changed my factory settings.

You know what factory settings are, yes? The default settings that come with iPhones, cars, televisions…all kinds of devices and trinkets herunterladen. Font sizes and ring tones and lumbar support are all set up for you.

Until you change them.

We humans have factory settings, too. It may not all happen right at birth, but in our first decade or so we determine that certain things are simply inherent to who we are. Things like our abilities and our belief systems and the way we communicate.

Far too often we think our factory settings are permanent. Sometimes we even use this notion as an excuse to justify our behavior or as a reason to not even bother trying to change hörbuch auf ipad downloaden.

That’s just how I’m wired, we say.

Nein!

Behold, a few examples of false declarations of permanent factory settings. See if any ring a bell:

  • “I’m just a terrible driver. It’s part of my DNA.”.
  • “My hand-eye coordination stinks. No golf/tennis/softball for me…ever.”
  • “I cannot function until I get my first cup of coffee…and everyone should steer clear until I do.”
  • “I just can’t draw/change my oil/sing/wrap my head around numbers and so I wouldn’t even try.”
  • “I just can’t get good at the lovie-dovie stuff even though my partner has told me she’d like me to hold her hand every once in a while.”
  • “I was born competitive and so I’ll always push myself past the limit flight simulator. Even if it hurts.”
  • “I just can’t control myself around dark chocolate/chicken wings/McDonald’s french fries.”

I think you get my point.

Despite what we might think (or like to think), SO many factory settings are changeable.

Maybe nature made us better at certain things than others…but that doesn’t mean we can’t get better at the other things vektorgrafiken downloaden. Maybe nurture made us prioritize some things over others…but that doesn’t mean we can’t explore the other things to see if they work better for us.

It’s not always easy, of course. Heck, changing the radio stations in a new car can be intimidating at first. And we might be tempted to just stick with the setting we know videos abspielen programm kostenlos downloaden. Even if it doesn’t serve us.

But that’s not really our best option, is it? Instead, we can locate the manual/online article/friend who knows how to do the other thing and figure it out.

Yes, certain things are permanent. I will never be six feet tall and I will never be a soprano singer.

But.

There are so many factory settings we can change…we can learn to hit a golf ball, overcome a fear of heights, get comfortable in crowds, learn to read music, become more ambitious about our work, become less obsessive about our bodies hp officejet 4500 software download for free.

Get better at communicating with the super-sheepish woman who has to break the news that the hotel reservation has been messed up.

Who, by the way, in addition to the free parking and discount, threw in free breakfast as well.

Auf Wiedersehen!

6 thoughts on “The Truth About Your Factory Settings

  1. Samantha Goldstein says:

    As I get older, I am constantly rethinking my factory settings. Well-put, my friend. And so glad that you got some perks thrown in and had a wonderful time in Germany!

    1. Thanks so much for the lovely response…funny what age teaches us, yes??

  2. Patty says:

    You are so on target Deirdre. Can make a big difference in one’s life. Prayer that says: accept what I can, change what I can, and the WISDOM to know the difference. The wisdom is the key!!

    1. Thanks Patty! It really does feel like that wisdom piece is the whole game…appreciate the thoughtful comment!

  3. Ginny Ollis says:

    Deirdre, this is one of y our best ever, and so on point for me today! Thank you.
    I need to reset and you gave me the push I need. Thank you thank you.

  4. I’m SO glad to hear it, Ginny! Kudos to you for knowing you need to reset…and then doing what you need to do to get there. Takes guts! 🙂

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